“Not Every Fall Is Flight”
- Adewale Oluwatosin
- Jul 3
- 1 min read
They say,
“Keep going,
failure is a stepping stone,”
but they don’t mention
how stones bruise
when your knees hit them too many times.
They romanticize resilience—
paint it in gold,
sing of strength
like it’s always heroic
to survive.
But sometimes survival
looks like silence.
Sometimes,
it’s waking up
with nothing left to give—
and giving anyway.
They mean well,
these cheerleaders of hope,
they love us in the only way they know—
with pep talks and bright endings
and borrowed quotes from people
who made it through.
But here’s a truth I wish more people told:
It’s okay
if today you are not okay.
It’s okay
if you don’t want to climb today,
if your heart feels more like gravel
Because not every story
needs to be inspiring
in the middle.
Some chapters
are just meant to hold us—
softly,
quietly.
And even now,
even here,
you are not unseen.
You are not failing
for feeling tired.
You are not weak
for needing rest.
You are not alone
in this ache.
One day, you’ll rise again—
not because you pushed through,
but because the weight finally softened
and so did the world around you.
Until then,
breathe.
You are still becoming.




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